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Emperor Trump Has No Clothes

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Donald Trump is not just another run-of-the-mill presidential candidate, yet the media insists on normalizing and legitimizing this menace to our democracy while at the same time they report at length all the Republicans’ manufactured scandals about Hillary Clinton–even after she’s been legally exonerated. Whose side are they on? Given Trump’s contempt for the media, no one would expect them to have any respect for him; yet their fascination with the weird spectacle of a know-nothing NYC playboy winning over voters and the bizarre mental image of this buffoon sitting in the Oval Office has yielded them powerless to speak rationally about what they see and hear.

Everyone has heard the children’s story “The Emperor’s New Clothes,” by Hans Christian Andersen. Once upon a time, there lived a vain emperor who, more than anything else, loved being admired for his fine sartorial sense: “He had a coat for every hour of the day, and instead of saying, as one might, about any other ruler, ‘The King’s in council,’ here they always said, ‘The Emperor’s in his dressing room.’”

Then one day, two swindlers showed up in town who “let it be known they were weavers, and they said they could weave the most magnificent fabrics imaginable. Not only were their colors and patterns uncommonly fine, but clothes made of this cloth had a wonderful way of becoming invisible to anyone who was unfit for his office, or who was unusually stupid.”

The emperor, never able to resist an appeal to his vanity, immediately hired the two swindlers to set up their looms and start weaving some of their magnificent cloth for him. Believing the promise that this cloth would give him extraordinary powers of perception, he paid them a great sum of money. The swindlers worked day and night. Whenever anyone went to have a look at their progress, the two swindlers baited them with talk of the beautiful colors and pattern; and even though no one could ever see anything “because there was nothing to see,” they would never admit it because it had been established that inability to see the cloth was proof of gross stupidity. One day, a retinue of the emperor’s trusted advisers went to view the “cloth” and recommended that the emperor have garments made from it to wear in the upcoming procession. The swindlers were delighted and went to work immediately to make the “garments.”

 

The day of the grand procession arrived, and the swindlers—with much pomp and ceremony—dressed the emperor in his new outfit. Neither the emperor nor the people watching would, of course, admit to seeing no clothing on the emperor’s body. So he was escorted to his “splendid canopy,” and the grand procession began. As he marched haughtily down the streets, naked, spectators–not wishing to be revealed as stupid–exclaimed over the fine garments the emperor wore. Even after an innocent child spoke the truth, “He’s not wearing anything” and adults began echoing the child’s words, and even though the emperor inwardly feared they were right, he still had to maintain his image. “So he walked more proudly than ever, as his noblemen held high the train that wasn’t there at all.”

This story has been used as an analogy many times since its publication, but I think perhaps it’s never been more pertinent than as an example of the media’s relationship to Donald Trump and their clear abetting of his rise to become the Republican party’s nominee for the presidency of our country. The media’s legitimizing and normalizing of Trump’s buffoonery is widely regarded as one of the key factors in his success so far. His campaign “speeches” consist of ranting about how great he is and attacking the latest person who has treated him “unfairly.” It’s all about him! Yet these meandering trails of verbal vomit have been parsed and discussed on the evening news by panels of “pundits” as if they were made of real cloth. Why do the people whose professional codes obligate them to speak the truth seem blind to the truth about Trump?  Like the emperor and all of the adults in his kingdom, they look at a naked person and analyze the color, pattern, texture, and tailoring of his outfit. Even a child can see the candidate is naked! What our media talking heads are calling “policy proposals” and “positions” are nothing but underwear! I’ve wanted to scream at my TV screen every night as I watch these “experts” continue to treat Trump’s lunatic ravings as a serious political platform, “He’s naked! For the love of all that is good, stop talking about his clothes!”

One thing the “heads” keep talking about is when Trump will “pivot” to a serious general election mode, as if that would legitimize their enabling and pandering so far. He has less than four months left to make this “pivot”; and frankly, no amount of pivoting would erase the stupidity, hatred, and lies he’s already spoken. Too late! The presidency is not the place for on-the-job training. After each of the rare occasions on which he’s read a speech from a teleprompter, the talking heads seriously comment on how presidential he seemed. NO, that’s still underwear you’re seeing, folks! SAY it!

Donald Trump is as ignorant of our Constitution as I am of spacecraft technology (I know nothing), but that doesn’t stop him from seeking a job which requires an intimate knowledge of it, and that doesn’t stop people from critiquing his wardrobe when he’s actually naked. I could possibly overlook the “Article XII” remark if he’d been able to give an intelligent response to the question about how he’d protect the Article I powers. There is no Article XII, but I understand it’s difficult to be asked questions on the spot and an occasional slip is inevitable. So I’m willing to give him a little bit of a pass on that one. However, there IS an Article I, and if he’d known enough about it to answer the question intelligently, he’d never have gotten to the Article XII part. His response—“I want to protect Article I, Article II, Article XII”—was the emperor’s recognition that he is indeed wearing no clothes but is determined to continue marching proudly forward because the show must go on.

The Trump supporters I’ve heard from most often cite his outsider status as their primary reason for supporting him. They’re sick of politicians, they don’t trust any of them, and they’re buoyed by the promise of someone who’s not a politician bringing hoped-for change to shake things up in Washington, D.C. I understand that, and I even share some of that distrust and disgust, especially for the deadbeat members of Congress who have done nothing but obstruct for the last eight years. I also have a pretty strong distrust of doctors. I don’t like how they’re always pushing pills and treating symptoms without looking for more holistic therapies. BUT when I decide I don’t like my doctor, I don’t turn to my auto mechanic, my lawn maintenance crew, my next-door neighbor, or my hair stylist to take over my health care. My hair stylist is quite a health-conscious young woman, and we sometimes discuss her holistic ideas on wellness because some of her ideas are really good. This year, my next-door neighbors have become “mostly vegan” as an approach to more healthful living, and I’ve been interested in their ideas and recipes. However, if I become seriously ill, I won’t be calling my hair stylist or my neighbor. I may try one of the non-conventional professionals, such as a naturopath or a chiropractor, or I might even try an acupuncturist if I were not such a coward around needles. Those people are outsiders to conventional medicine, but they’re NOT untrained; they’re trained in different methods but still knowledgeable about the human body and its care.

And the problem most often lamented about this election is the only alternative to the naked emperor is another unpopular and highly distrusted candidate. How many times have you heard people say “I just wish we had another choice”? And I see their point. For me, the choice between these two is easy, but I’ll admit I wouldn’t mind having another option. Hillary Clinton is a flawed candidate; I know few people who disagree with that statement.  She’s been the subject of many investigations; and even though she’s been cleared of guilt, and charges have been dropped in each one, they’ve left scars on her reputation. The FBI Director just this month used the words “extremely careless” to describe her handling of classified information. But with her as the only alternative to Donald Trump, the choice is in my opinion a no-brainer. She’s a highly intelligent, highly educated, and highly experienced person. She knows how many articles the Constitution has, and she could offer a coherent, thoughtful answer to a question about any one of those articles. She has served in high office and knows how government works. Not much is going to shock her or throw her off course. She’s a smart, seasoned candidate; she’s also an imperfect candidate, but she’s clothed! And I’m not talking about her famous jackets. I’m talking about her knowledge of history, law, and government.

Arianna Huffington has gained my respect as a most outspoken journalist, not afraid to admit what she sees and report to the world that Emperor Trump is wearing no clothes. For several months, she has added this comment at the end of every article about Trump:

Editor’s note: Donald Trump regularly incites political violence and is a serial liar,rampant xenophobe, racist, misogynist and birther who has repeatedly pledged to ban all Muslims ― 1.6 billion members of an entire religion ― from entering the U.S.

In an excellent article published in the July 12 Huffington Post, she cites Edward R. Murrow, the journalist’s journalist from the early to mid-twentieth century:

“’This is no time for men who oppose Senator McCarthy’s methods to keep silent,’ Murrow said on the air in 1954. ‘We can deny our heritage and our history, but we cannot escape responsibility for the result. There is no way for a citizen of a republic to abdicate his responsibilities… We proclaim ourselves, as indeed we are, the defenders of freedom wherever it continues to exist in the world. But we cannot defend freedom abroad by deserting it at home… Cassius was right. ‘The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.’ Good night, and good luck.”

Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg has lived up to her nickname, “Notorious RBG,” by risking her reputation and her legacy to speak the truth: “The emperor is naked!” Judges are not supposed to support or denounce candidates for elected office, but this judge placed love of her country above rules and above her personal interests.

This is no time to be silent on the threat which looms in November. Donald Trump has no clothes! Admitting what is blatantly obvious is not evidence of stupidity; it’s evidence of intelligence, courage, and love of country.

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Guns vs Guts: Eight Images

These last few years, I’ve increasingly had the feeling I’m living in the Wild West. Everywhere I go, I hear gun-slinging, NRA-brainwashed, second-amendment-parroting folks crowing about protecting themselves and their families and the American way of life. Sometimes the enemy is their fellow citizens, sometimes it’s a potential mass shooter, and sometimes it’s our government. Here are a few lines from some western movies which may sound vaguely reminiscent of statements you’ve seen recently on social media.

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Made famous by Clint Eastwood and probably the most familiar line of all, this one is often used in jest with no real intent to do harm. But when this attitude is expressed in tense situations, it says, “Your life is of so little value to me that I welcome the chance to snuff it out. Just give me a reason! I dare you!”

Here’s another one:

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Kurt Russell, as Wyatt Earp, also thinks he can solve problems with his guns. This doesn’t sound like an invitation to a friendly chat or a logical argument. If someone bothers you, a threat of violence should make them see things your way. That’s what the NRA says, so it must be true.

And another:

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Doc Holliday, too, thinks he’ll solve both of his current problems with his pair of six shooters. Why talk when you can shoot?

And finally:

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Gun pointed, John Wayne, as John Bernard Books, gives the person looking at the open end of the barrel a lesson in respect.

These fictional characters and their bravado-fueled threats are entertaining enough. Even though I’m not a big fan of the genre, I probably wouldn’t favor denying others their enjoyment. What troubles me is seeing these attitudes playing out in the words of real people I know and interact with, especially the statements I find on social media which sound just like these four examples. In real life, violence never solves a problem; it just compounds the problem. And the plot is not neatly wrapped up in 90-120 minutes; it can go on over generations.

Two police officers, in two separate cities, on two consecutive days, kill two black men; and the next night, a crazed sniper murders five police officers and wounds seven more. Now even more people are angry, even more people are protesting, and even more people may die. Yet the most die-hard NRA bullies are not even willing to come to the table to talk about another way of solving problems. They just keep talking about the second amendment, while making it crystal clear that they’ve never even read the whole thing or given it five minutes’ thought.

Well, I for one am tired of the wild, wild west; I’d love to live in a peaceful, civilized society where I don’t have to look over my shoulder wherever I go or wonder if that new person in church might be another Dylan Roof or whether the person in line ahead of me at the convenience store could be planning to rob the place and kill everyone present or whether my grandchildren might be murdered at their little school desks or whether I might leave the movie theater in a body bag or whether the person I flicked off in traffic is going to run me off the road and shoot me dead. Just kidding! I don’t do that! If I did, perhaps I should be ashamed of myself for being rude and uncouth, but I shouldn’t die.

Martin Luther King suggested a better way:

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It takes “guts” to stand up for your principles, to live by them and not just say the words. It takes “guts” to face unfair treatment with only the force of your own words and the power of your faith and conviction. It may cost you, as it cost Dr. King; but more often than not, people don’t die for non-violent resistance. More often than not, they effect change; and even those who do die, as Dr. King did, leave behind a legacy of hope, not a bloody trail of dead bodies.

In contrast to the four images of gun- and bravado-enforced threats, look at these four images of strong character and bold conviction.

A demonstrator protesting the shooting death of Alton Sterling is detained by law enforcement near the headquarters of the Baton Rouge Police Department in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, U.S. July 9, 2016. REUTERS/Jonathan Bachman TPX IMAGES OF THE DAY
A demonstrator protesting the shooting death of Alton Sterling is detained by law enforcement near the headquarters of the Baton Rouge Police Department in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, U.S. July 9, 2016. REUTERS/Jonathan Bachman TPX IMAGES OF THE DAY

Kudos to Mr. Bachman for capturing this beautiful, captivating image: an unarmed, poised, dignified woman approaching two officers in riot gear. She was arrested and detained overnight, but now the whole world has witnessed her protest and been moved by her courage and dignity, and no one died. Her protest did not escalate an already tense situation. In the accompanying article published in the July 11 Huffington Post, the photographer explains: “It happened quickly, but I could tell that she wasn’t going to move, and it seemed like she was making her stand. To me it seemed like: You’re going to have to come and get me. . . . It wasn’t very violent. She didn’t say anything. She didn’t resist, and the police didn’t drag her off.” No one can say at this point whether her protest will help ease tension or restore order, but we can say it did nothing to increase tension or cause further disorder.

The above image is already being compared with this one:

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The lone figure standing in front of the column of tanks has come to be known as “Tank Man” and has become part of the history of the Tianenman Square student protest in Beijing in 1989. Tianenman Square was anything but a non-violent confrontation, and the body count is variously estimated in the hundreds or perhaps the thousands. But this lone individual makes his personal statement peacefully and with human dignity.

Rosa Parks has long been one of my heroes for her courageous protest of discriminatory laws in the state of Alabama and most other Southern states. On December 1, 1955, Ms. Parks, already a civil rights activist, refused to yield her seat in the “colored” section of the bus  to a white man who couldn’t find a seat in the white section because that section was already filled.

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As a result of her defying the bus driver’s order, she was arrested and taken to jail. In a TV interview years later, Ms. Parks recalled,  “When he saw me still sitting, he asked if I was going to stand up, and I said, ‘No, I’m not.’ And he said, ‘Well, if you don’t stand up, I’m going to have to call the police and have you arrested.’ I said, ‘You may do that.'” She gave him permission to have her arrested! She didn’t fight or threaten; she just said, “I’m not moving. Do what you have to do.” And no one died.

What did happen is that outrage over Ms. Parks’s treatment launched the Montgomery Bus Boycott which eventually led to changes in the law. This was also the incident which catapulted the mostly unknown pastor of Dexter Avenue Baptist Church in Atlanta, the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., into the national spotlight where he created his own legacy for which all African Americans everywhere are indebted to him.

Rosa Parks has earned the titles “the first lady of civil rights” and “the mother of the freedom movement,” and she did it without firing a shot, threatening to fire a shot, or spewing hateful, vitriolic words. She did it all by quietly and consistently resisting injustice.

Finally, here’s another familiar face:

The Hon'ble Mr. Gadgil Minister for Works Mines and Power addressing a public meeting

Mohandas Gandhi, better known by his honorific title Mahatma Gandhi, led India to independence from British rule and inspired other civil rights and freedom movements across the world, all by means of nonviolent civil disobedience, which he also called non-co-operation. He is known for saying “Non-cooperation with evil is as much a duty as is cooperation with good.” His accomplishments are far too numerous for the small scope of this article, and they were all accomplished without firing a shot and without threat or implementation of violence on his part.

Guns or guts? Do we want to retreat further and further into the wild west, until we’re all strapping on our six shooters to go to the grocery store? Or will enough people grow enough guts to face evil and overcome it with love? Each of us has to make our own choice. I’ve made mine.

 

 

 

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The Real Tragedy of Donald Trump

Ever since that fateful day, June 16, 2015, when Donald Trump—heretofore business mogul, beauty pageant owner, reality TV show star, NYC playboy—made his dramatic descent of the escalator in Trump Towers and announced to a surprised and amused world that he was ready to expand his resume by becoming President of the United States and leader of the free world, I—like everyone else paying attention—have been amused, appalled, bewildered, and infuriated. But after running that gamut, and still feeling all of those except the amused part (this is no longer funny!), I also feel deeply sad and disturbed because it’s become increasingly obvious Donald Trump is the effect, not the cause of our dire situation. Our country was ripe for a buffoon seeking the presidency to be taken seriously and voted for because of a half century of declining standards and failure to address systemic problems which are now rising to the surface in a way we haven’t seen in decades. And what the events of the last year have revealed to us about our standards and about the state of the Union is downright heartbreaking!

The person whom one of our two major parties is about to officially nominate as their candidate for the presidency of our country has regularly been labeled liar, racist, misogynist, xenophobe, birther, anti-Semite, hater of all Muslims, and inciter of violence. He has lawsuits pending against him for charges which include fraud, rape, and rape of a minor. He says he’ll bring jobs back to our country when it’s a well-documented fact that he himself has outsourced jobs in his various businesses. He says he’s for the working person but spent big bucks to prevent his housekeepers in Las Vegas from unionizing (he lost!). He boasts of his business success, but his corporations have filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy four times. He wants to ban immigrants but has employed immigrants in his businesses (and married two of them). He claims to be worth ten billion dollars, but most economists believe his actual worth is far less; and he admitted his worth fluctuates by the day, dependent among other things on his mood (What the . . . ???). He refuses to release his recent tax returns even though doing so has been common practice among presidential candidates for decades. He proudly proclaims himself the King of Debt but boasts that he’d “do great” handling the national economy. He yammers on endlessly about his greatness, but everyone who knows the slightest smidgen about psychology immediately pegged him as the biggest narcissist ever to disgrace the national stage. He has repeatedly demonstrated his utter ignorance of history, politics, government, international relations, and everything else with which a president must be intimately familiar. Just this week, when someone asked him what he would do to protect the Article I powers of the Constitution, his answer could not have made it any more obvious that he’s never even studied the Constitution: “I want to protect Article I, Article II, Article XII.” Great, Donald! There’s just one problem with that: Article XII doesn’t exist. He also demonstrates with each passing day his complete lack of interest in or effort toward learning any of those things.

His rallies will be the subject of discussion for decades to come, giving historians plenty of material for analysis. Who remembers a previous presidential candidate giving childish names to each of his opponents? Who has heard a presidential candidate swatting away a mosquito make the statement “I don’t like mosquitoes! OK, speaking of mosquitoes, hello Hillary, how are you doing?” I recall saying things like that, circa third grade, maybe fifth. But this is someone who thinks he’s qualified to lead the free world, and this is a campaign “speech” for God’s sake! And let’s talk about his “speeches.” What he calls “speeches” are meandering, incoherent, streams of verbal vomit whose main focus is defending himself and his latest mind-boggling screw-up. He sprinkles in dashes and pinches of love for his audience and for his country and how he’s motivated by his love for us all to do great things, but then he goes right back to his narcissistic boasting and his thin-skinned, insecure self-defense; and he makes it abundantly obvious he has no statute of limitations on grudges as he even rehashes comments and incidents from the primary.

A couple of nights ago, I listened to a whole hour of his rambling, and it was the most mind-numbing hour of my life! This week, Wednesday evening, having just received the best gift a Republican candidate could possibly be handed—the FBI decision on Hillary Clinton’s emails—he was in the catbird seat! He could have spent his entire time behind the podium hammering his opponent, her party, her husband, the FBI, the Justice Department (not saying I agree with popular opinions on these subjects, but from a Republican candidate’s viewpoint he had a veritable arsenal of ammunition). Instead, he randomly sprinkled in lame comments on this new information, relying mostly on his worn-out accusation of “rigged system.” (Quick side note: According to the “speech” I listened to this week, he thinks he invented the word “rigged” and pretty much owns intellectual property rights to it. Really. No joke.) The body of the “speech,” however, twisted and turned from defending his Star of David tweet and wishing it hadn’t been taken down to his contempt for the media and their “racist tendencies” to praise for Newt Gingrich and Saddam Hussein to raking up grudges from the Republican primary to how great the upcoming convention will be to slamming the Never Trump movement as well as all the other Republicans who have refused or have hesitated to support him. And I’m sure I left out a few things I missed during the times my ears became numb.

Not much of a resume, I’d say, for someone who wants to be president. You wouldn’t go up in an airplane piloted by someone who’s never flown a plane before or even seen the inside of a cockpit, you wouldn’t sign a consent for surgery by someone who never set foot in a medical school, you wouldn’t hire someone to design your house who has no knowledge of building and safety codes, you wouldn’t go to McDonald’s to purchase a gourmet meal, you wouldn’t ask your hair stylist to repair your car or your nail tech to fix your lawn mower, and you wouldn’t hire a five-year-old to take your wedding photos. But you’d hand the nuclear codes to an unhinged huckster who can’t put together a coherent sentence and has the temperament of a five-year-old. And about thirteen million people—more than have voted for any other single primary candidate in history—have seen this SAME information and said, “Wow! HE needs to be President!” And those people have gone to his rallies; they’ve listened to his word vomit; they’ve chanted “Trump! Trump! Trump!” until they must be hoarse; they’ve accosted protesters; and they’ve cast their votes.

All of that being said, the fact that a crazy person thinks he should be president doesn’t really disturb me. Look at all the crazy people who have claimed to be Jesus! As I said at the beginning, Trump is not the cause; he’s the effect. Donald Trump would not be where he is without the 13,000,000 people who have so far voted for him. And therein lies the REAL tragedy! In the greatest and richest country on earth, 13,000,000 people feel so angry, so betrayed, so powerless, so disenfranchised, so cheated, and so dehumanized that the rantings of a crazy man are words of hope and promise! If I were drowning, I wouldn’t take time to vet the person who threw me a rope. I wouldn’t care how morally corrupt or mentally deranged the person might be; I’d grab that rope! The fact that 13,000,000 people have reached the level of desperation that a rope from Donald Trump looks like salvation is tragic.

It goes without saying at this point that we need to make sure this con man never sets foot anywhere near the Oval Office, but equally important is our need to fix the systemic problems that have allowed him to get this close to that sacred territory. Anti-intellectualism, failing schools, failing churches, hatred, prejudice of all sorts, political polarization—these are our real problems. And they’ve flourished in the fertile soil of standards grossly reduced by George W. Bush, Sarah Palin, spineless media, Republican lawmakers’ rejection of a black president, young black men murdered without consequence, mass murders becoming commonplace occurrences, schools so bound to teaching how to pass a test that they don’t have time to teach how to think and live, and so many more.
But what are we doing to fix these real causes? What can we do to fix them? How can we prevent a repeat of the 2016 campaign debacle? Donald Trump will go away, and as long as he’s never elected, we can recover from the damage done so far. But the systemic issues that allowed his rise will not go away on their own. They’re going to require serious soul-searching and hard work, and we can’t start soon enough!

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Gun Cliches

I for one have grown weary of the clichés used against common-sense gun laws. You’ve heard them: “Guns don’t kill people; people kill people.” “Guns don’t shoot themselves.” “The only solution to a bad guy with a gun is a good guy with a gun.” “Bad guys will always find a way to get guns.” “Blaming the guns.” These are not arguments; they’re ways in which those who have no logical argument to defend their position attempt to make the opponent look foolish. People who utter these phrases ad nauseum are those who have accepted the NRA brainwashing that the Second Amendment to our Constitution gives them unlimited rights to own any type of gun as well as any type and quantity of ammunition they choose. They’ve also accepted the NRA/Fox News paranoia that they must staunchly protect that “right” because our government is their enemy who (a) wants to disarm all citizens and (b) once that goal is accomplished, will then place them into slavery, kill them all, or whatever the imagined threat may be. Could we all take a few deep breaths and have a conversation?

To begin, these clichés are not only inane, they’re insulting. But of course, when you have no logical argument, insulting the opponent is all you’ve got to work with. I don’t know anyone stupid enough to imagine that guns fire themselves; yet this one is typically spoken in a smug, gotcha tone as if the speaker imagines he/she has just uttered the wisdom of the universe and left the hearer permanently speechless. Not quite. Everyone knows it takes a human being to aim a gun at another human and to pull the trigger. What many of us want, however, is some common-sense restrictions on who is pulling that trigger and what is being aimed at. Shooting for sport is something very few reasonable people oppose. Protecting oneself and one’s family against genuine threats is also a pretty commonly accepted reason for owning a weapon. No one “blames the gun”; people devastated by the mass killings in our country blame the people using the guns, but some of us would like better ways of controlling who is allowed to use guns.

Here’s another clichéd response: We’ll never stop people bent on doing evil from obtaining guns, so there is no solution. In that case, I should remove all the locks on the doors of my house, because a bad guy who really wants to get in is going to do it anyway. Lots of people are quite good at picking locks and gaining entry. And if all else fails, the easiest thing in the world is to break a window, so why bother with locks and security systems? And why do I lock my car doors? Same as my house: locks can be opened with instruments other than keys, and windows are easy to break.

And while we’re at it, why bother trying to enforce our laws against stealing, rape, trespassing, identity theft, driving while intoxicated? People just keep doing those things every day, so why not just stop fighting it? We’re never going to stop them completely. We’ve tried and tried, but there is no solution; so let’s just save ourselves a lot of stress, time, and money and forget about those laws. And why stop there? Let’s just throw away our law books, since every law in the books has been broken thousands of times.

Years ago, someone attempted to break into my house while I was at work. My alarm scared him away, but a sheriff’s deputy came out to investigate. Since the final place the person attempted to gain entry was my kitchen window, which is in the back of the house, the deputy said it would be a good idea to put locks on my gates. His reasoning was that a locked gate won’t stop a determined burglar, since fences are pretty easy to climb (for some people); but he said criminals look for the easiest route, so any obstacle we can place in their way will act as a deterrent. Will locking my gates provide 100% protection against break-ins? Of course not. Nothing will do that. But I continue to place as many deterrents as possible in the way of would-be evil doers. Shouldn’t we do at least that much to save lives? We can’t save them all, but wouldn’t it be worth it to save SOME?

The biggest obstacle to common-sense reform is the all-or-nothing thinking that so dominates some elements of our current culture. Masses of people have fallen prey to some gross logical fallacies, particularly the black-white fallacy which is all-or-nothing thinking. Enter the cliché “Bad guys will always find a way to get guns.” Following that “logic,” if we can’t solve a problem 100%, we should simply do nothing at all. This is where our Senate has been for the past few years, and they failed us again in the wake of the deadliest mass shooting in our modern history. I say 56 senators should be looking for new jobs after November!

The Second Amendment to our Constitution, in its entirety, is this: “A well regulated Militia, being necessary to the security of a free State, the right of the people to keep and bear Arms, shall not be infringed.” Those 27 words, combined in a confusing sentence structure not common in modern writing styles, are at the heart of the whole problem.

The NRA and all of its sheep can quote the last 14 words in their sleep, but they ignore the first 13 as if they don’t exist. They’re admittedly confusing, but they’re part of the sentence, so they can’t be ignored. Grammatically, what this sentence says is “Because a militia is necessary for state and national security, people must be permitted to own guns.” In other words, we were originally given the right to own firearms so that we could protect our country from invaders. Since we no longer have militia, and the National Guard does not require troops to supply their own weapons, the Supreme Court in 2008, in District of Columbia vs. Heller, provided an interpretation more fitting to our modern life. That interpretation allows private ownership of firearms for “traditionally lawful purposes,” such as protecting one’s home. I can’t think of anyone in my acquaintance who disagrees with allowing certain types of firearms to be owned by sane people for lawful purposes. However, insuring that only sane people who want to hunt or to protect their homes get their hands on guns and distinguishing between weapons for military use and those for private use requires a reasoned and logical conversation, which many people refuse even to consider.

The bottom line is that the second amendment is not and never has been blanket permission for anyone to own any type of weapon he/she chooses or to stockpile weapons and quantities of ammunition which serve no other purpose than killing large numbers of people. Whatever happened to common sense?!

I know the second amendment gives us certain rights, but those rights are not absolute; it’s not all-or-nothing. Every right we have has limits. I grew up hearing the saying “Your right to swing your arm ends where my nose begins.” Kinda corny, but it sums things up nicely, I think. I have the right to own knives, but that right does not allow me to stab people; and since 2001, it has not allowed me to carry my knives on board an airplane. My right to own and use knives has limits. As a State of Florida licensed driver, I have the right to own and operate a motor vehicle; but I do not have the right to drive that vehicle across my neighbors’ lawn or through their living room wall, to crash it into another vehicle, or to run down pedestrians on the street or sidewalk. If I do any of those things, or if I fail to pay my insurance and annual registration fees, my right to operate a vehicle will be temporarily or permanently revoked. Limits.

I also exercise my right to private property ownership. I own a house; however, I have to observe the limits on the freedoms I enjoy as a property owner. My right to own property does not give me the right to refuse paying my taxes, to operate a business out of my home, to use my home for subversive gatherings, or to completely neglect my home’s maintenance. I have the right to worship and live by the faith I choose; but if my chosen religion practiced human sacrifice, the law against murder would supersede the dictates of my religion. The first amendment (the one right before the second) gives me the right of free speech; but I can’t yell “Fire!” in a crowded theater unless I actually see a flame, I can’t publish libel or slander, and I can’t use my words to bully another person.

The second amendment has limits. It’s insane to parrot those last 14 words as if they give blanket permission to do whatever the hell we please. Placing limits on who can own firearms, what kinds of firearms we can legally own, how many of those firearms we can legally stockpile, and where we can legally carry those deadly weapons are common-sense matters which I have no reason to believe our country’s founders intended to preclude. And they’re no different from the limitations placed on our right to use knives, operate motor vehicles, own private property, follow our own religions, or speak what’s on our minds.

If we really grasp the fact that we’re in this together—Democrats and Republicans; liberal and conservative; Christian, Muslim, and atheist (and all the other theological positions); gay and straight; black, white, and brown; male, female, and the whole gender continuum—that we have a common stake in keeping our country safe and strong, we HAVE to start having real conversations. And conversation starts with listening, really listening, hearing what others think and respecting their thoughts and feelings and only after hearing and understanding, speaking a response that addresses those thoughts and feelings and doesn’t simply repeat the clichés and talking points that get us nowhere.

Maybe we could finally agree on common-sense laws that would not infringe on the rights of law-abiding citizens but would limit the activities of those who would commit evil acts. As is, we can’t establish consequences for those who purchase weapons with the intent to do evil, because most of those purchases are LEGAL. Would new laws keep arms out of the hands of all people bent on wrongdoing? Of course not, just as laws against stealing, rape, DWI, etc., haven’t prevented people from committing those crimes. And yes, guns would be available on the black market, as are all forms of drugs. Yet we continue to fight against legalizing particularly deadly drugs because we figure we’re at least going to save SOME lives, even though we’ll never save them all. Reasonable gun laws would also save SOME lives, though definitely not all. Don’t you think we should do at least as much as we can do?

I have locks on my house doors. I lock my car doors when the car is anywhere except my own garage. I lock my gates. Could anyone with enough determination break into my house or steal my car? Of course. But as a sheriff’s deputy once told me, most criminals take the path of least resistance, so whatever road blocks we can set up will prevent SOME crimes. Not every would-be criminal would even know how to access the black market. Some would not have the money to purchase arms sold at the prices that market might demand. Some would be deterred by the difficulty of it all. Not all, but SOME. I believe every individual person is worthy of our protection, worthy of our saving as many as we can, even though it will never be all.